Better than Expected

Better Than Expected: The Joy of Life’s Beautiful Surprises

Sometimes, things don’t go as planned—and yet, they turn out just right, even better. Through story and reflection, this service invites us to explore how trust, joy, and openness can reveal unexpected blessings.

From a very bumpy bus ride that leads to surprising victories, to a modern fairy tale where broken pieces become the setting for new love, these tales remind us that we are not separate from life’s unfolding.  Rather, we are co-creators in a vast, interconnected web—where even in the midst of chaos or disappointment, delight can rise up, unbidden and beautiful.

Grounded in Unitarian Universalist principles and told with a light and hopeful spirit, this offering affirms a quiet truth: that believing is receiving, and sometimes, life’s sweetness arrives without our effort—lemons to lemonade—confectioner’s sugar and all.

Themes and UU Principles Addressed

• A free and responsible search for truth and meaning – Honoring the unfolding journey of life, where outcomes may differ from our plans but still reveal deep purpose and beauty.

• Affirmation of the inherent worth and dignity of every person – Emphasizing openness to joy, grace, and connection, even (and especially) when life doesn’t go according to plan.

• Respect for the interdependent web of all existence – Trusting in the mysterious, creative forces that bind us together, and recognizing the unexpected gifts that arise through this web of connection.

• Encouragement to spiritual growth – Cultivating trust, delight, and flexibility as spiritual practices that help us remain present, resilient, and grateful.

This service is grounded in optimism, possibility, and the quiet power of believing—reminding us that we do not always have to make the magic. Sometimes, we simply need to receive it.